Again the most asked question is been asked again, I have
been asked this zillion times.
The person: what are you so happy about?
Me: excuse me!
The person: Just you are smiling and you look so happy, I am
curious to know the reason.
Me: Okaaaaay! What makes you think I am happy, maybe I am not,
I am just smiling
The person: no you look happy
Me: it is called gratitude.
The person: continue …..
Me: your bus will come soon or mine and this is broad
concept … but let’s say I am happy because I am alive this morning, have health
and all I need to survive… so why I won’t be happy!
The person: that’s it, you have this wide smile in this
freezing cold weather because you are alive!
Me: YES! You tell me why you are so gloomy and sad?
The person: because I live in the real world and face
problems like everybody else.
Me: like everybody else! So I might have problems too why I
am smiling and you are not? I will tell you why… because I chose to, I have a
problem right I ask myself can I solve it; if my answer is yes then why I
should worry (here I noticed they wanna say something but I kept going) if my
answer is no (their eyes brightened as if they are saying YES explain it smart pants) then I just ignore it because I have nothing to do about it so what’s
the point of killing myself over something I can’t change.
Here I noticed that they were disappointed with my answer.
Me: Look it is the matter of choice, you can be happy and
direct your energy and your unconscious mind to solve the problem which will be
solved eventually or preoccupy your mind and emotions with sadness and get it
distracted from solving the real problem. It is easier said than done but when
we practice to get control over your feelings and mind life gets easier and all
the keys of happiness will be in your hand, there is no magic or secret spell
for happiness …. There is only hard way that will accompany us through our
whole life and we all will fall down and cry, it is your choice to get up and
dry your tears and continue your road or you can stop where you fell and stay
there crying your whole life. Trust me in both cases you will suffer but if you
chose the harder road of happiness you will be more satisfied because you know
that happiness is a road not a destination and you been up and down but you
never gave up, you will be happy because you had the choice, because you owned
your life … you didn’t blame anyone on what happened to you, you feel that you
are invincible because you controlled the one thing that most of people can’t
control; Your mind (conscious and unconscious) because mind is a dangerous master
but a beautiful servant.
We chose long time ago to blame the world, the people and
the whole universe about what happens to us, we called it luck, we called it
fate and we called it reality, we didn’t doubt the system for one second and
questioned why what happens, happens only to certain people .. Why some people
are so happy and lucky their whole life and others are miserable and suffering
for their whole life! We never questioned why some people are hanging between
the two worlds. Did we ask ourselves why good things tend to happen when we are
happy and bad things happens when we are down? We never ask the questions that
worth to be asked because we fear the answer, we fear to be accountable for our Fate, Luck and Reality; we preoccupy our minds with foolish things to
distract it from what really matters …. Our happiness, success and fulfillment ….
It is way easier to say all of this out of your hand and you have no control
over it because then you won’t be accountable for what crosses your bath
because then you will only be a puppet in the hand of invisible power that decided
your whole life, because by this you will be the victim not the aggressor. By doing
this you give away the only superpower you have as human being, you give away the
treasure that God gave us, which is hidden nowhere but inside of us and only
few people are able to see it.
I will leave you with one question, why don’t you try to
take the road of happiness? What you will lose? At least you know you have
tried, and there is nothing you will lose; in both cases you will be the same miserable
you are today but with the happiness road you only take the chance of being
happy and find your luck and meet your fate!
The person: …………………………………………………..!
Me: Have faith, not in any thing supernatural, just have
faith in yourself and say “Abracadabra” and you will create what you say.
The End ;)
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