On Happiness and other silly stuff

Again the most asked question is been asked again, I have been asked this zillion times.

The person: what are you so happy about?

Me: excuse me!

The person: Just you are smiling and you look so happy, I am curious to know the reason.

Me: Okaaaaay! What makes you think I am happy, maybe I am not, I am just smiling

The person: no you look happy

Me: it is called gratitude.

The person: continue …..

Me: your bus will come soon or mine and this is broad concept … but let’s say I am happy because I am alive this morning, have health and all I need to survive… so why I won’t be happy!

The person: that’s it, you have this wide smile in this freezing cold weather because you are alive!

Me: YES! You tell me why you are so gloomy and sad?

The person: because I live in the real world and face problems like everybody else.

Me: like everybody else! So I might have problems too why I am smiling and you are not? I will tell you why… because I chose to, I have a problem right I ask myself can I solve it; if my answer is yes then why I should worry (here I noticed they wanna say something but I kept going) if my answer is no (their eyes brightened as if they are saying YES explain it smart pants) then I just ignore it because I have nothing to do about it so what’s the point of killing myself over something I can’t change.

Here I noticed that they were disappointed with my answer.

Me: Look it is the matter of choice, you can be happy and direct your energy and your unconscious mind to solve the problem which will be solved eventually or preoccupy your mind and emotions with sadness and get it distracted from solving the real problem. It is easier said than done but when we practice to get control over your feelings and mind life gets easier and all the keys of happiness will be in your hand, there is no magic or secret spell for happiness …. There is only hard way that will accompany us through our whole life and we all will fall down and cry, it is your choice to get up and dry your tears and continue your road or you can stop where you fell and stay there crying your whole life. Trust me in both cases you will suffer but if you chose the harder road of happiness you will be more satisfied because you know that happiness is a road not a destination and you been up and down but you never gave up, you will be happy because you had the choice, because you owned your life … you didn’t blame anyone on what happened to you, you feel that you are invincible because you controlled the one thing that most of people can’t control; Your mind (conscious and unconscious) because mind is a dangerous master but a beautiful servant.

We chose long time ago to blame the world, the people and the whole universe about what happens to us, we called it luck, we called it fate and we called it reality, we didn’t doubt the system for one second and questioned why what happens, happens only to certain people .. Why some people are so happy and lucky their whole life and others are miserable and suffering for their whole life! We never questioned why some people are hanging between the two worlds. Did we ask ourselves why good things tend to happen when we are happy and bad things happens when we are down? We never ask the questions that worth to be asked because we fear the answer, we fear to be accountable for our Fate, Luck and Reality; we preoccupy our minds with foolish things to distract it from what really matters …. Our happiness, success and fulfillment …. It is way easier to say all of this out of your hand and you have no control over it because then you won’t be accountable for what crosses your bath because then you will only be a puppet in the hand of invisible power that decided your whole life, because by this you will be the victim not the aggressor. By doing this you give away the only superpower you have as human being, you give away the treasure that God gave us, which is hidden nowhere but inside of us and only few people are able to see it.

I will leave you with one question, why don’t you try to take the road of happiness? What you will lose? At least you know you have tried, and there is nothing you will lose; in both cases you will be the same miserable you are today but with the happiness road you only take the chance of being happy and find your luck and meet your fate!

The person: …………………………………………………..!

Me: Have faith, not in any thing supernatural, just have faith in yourself and say “Abracadabra” and you will create what you say.

The End ;)

Originality

And she asked about originality.

I answered her: my dear being original doesn’t mean the detestation of the world or looking down to people it is something profound and deep … it is the rejection of the world in its current structure and the consistent attempts to change it through our action and our being, it is the unending battle to defeat our negativity by the strength of our positivity presence … originality doesn’t allow you to judge other people or despite people because of their behaviors, it is more about showing none acceptance for such ignorance and arrogance and accordingly raise above it. Originality, is the ability to be you, only you as clear and honest as you could be; take the water as example: it is original because it never changes its form according to what its environment, water is always water in a glass of gold or glass of mud … it saves our lives in any way we drink it because water is just water always simple yet very important for the existence of all creatures and always will be. So we should just be ourselves and serve our purpose of existence without attempts to make our presence in this planet more glorious or important than it really is, we should be ourselves with all transparency we can … originality speaks up its mind, expresses its feeling and enjoys its moment, most important originality works with life not against it because it knows that those who go against life will always lose; only then we will be important enough because we served and fulfilled our duty in this life.